Last night while laying in bed I whispered to Lela

“I have a craving”

This is how she heard it

“I like gravy”

I started laughing so hard. Just had to share it with you. So all day today she has been asking me “Can I ask you a question? Do you like gravy?”

Let’s not get this post confused with the ever so popular and disgusting internet video titled 2 Girls 1 Cup If you want a actual link to this video ask me and I’ll provide it. But I must say it’s rather disgusting, even for me…

But ANYHOW!!!!

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Over my years of life and the girlfriends I have had over time. I have never really lived with another woman (other then my mom) for more then 2-3 months. Well now Lela is moving in with me and let me tell you words can’t tell you how happy I am. However happy I maybe for myself, I am sad for her and her friends being how they wont be so close to each other anymore. But we will make it a point that we/she go see them. We will be staying at my place for the next month or two then move to a new place that is bigger that can accompany the two of us and our combined 3 loving children. Ohh look Brandon will have a Brother and a Sister lol.

Anyhow I was thinking about this last night, how usually the woman of the household is automatically in charge of decorating the place. I love this fact as I love to attempt to decorate. Believe it or not, I at one time as a child wanted to be a interior decorator. But now I’m thinking oh oh there will be two of us living in this house. Chances are we are both going to want to decorate therefore we will probably argue on how we want to decorate the house. We have so many things in common but I’m not sure that decor is one of them. Now don’t get me wrong I love red but Lela’s love for red, well lets just say she takes it to a whole new level. To quote something she wrote in her blog “I looooooooooove red, all things red. Red is so sexy to me. It’s really hard to explain the feeling that red gives me. I know most people think that red is a sexual color and yes it is, but for me it’s a color that just makes me happy.” Everything in her house I think is red or at least in the kitchen. Red this and red that which includes a microwave and toaster which I actually love. But that is because they are a nice deep shade of red and not a bright shade that blinds ya.

So I think in order for this to work for us, were both going to have to give and take a little. I for one am definitely willing to give a little to make her happy.

Want your clothes to be really clean? Then nothing helps more then a nice bar of Zest added to your load.

Ok, so this wasn’t intentional in fact she’s not even sure how it made it in her laundry. Lela and I went to do our laundry last night and when she was pulling out her clothes she found a bar of soap at the bottom. We were both laughing hysterically.

How soon is too soon to tell someone you love them?

When should you tell the other person those magic words? I think saying “I love you” is a very personal experience, and every person has their own different time frame for saying it. Some people say it right away with a new person, some prefer to wait a while to be certain that they truly love the person they are saying it to. And even some will make sure to hold off and wait for their other half to say it first. Or better yet, some say it to get what they want in life, such as sex or money.

Personally when if I feel it I’m going to tell them, If I don’t it eats me up inside. I’m the type of person that when I love someone I’m going to tell them. And I will make sure to always tell them. My thoughts are, you never know when will be the last time you see them. If something happens to the person I love I want to know that they knew that I loved them.

I bet you can all pretty much figure out where I’m going with this, Yes you are right. I’m in love with Lela, and I make sure I tell her everyday. While writing this post, I started thinking how important it is to me that she feels my love for her. So I went to her asked her “do you feel my love for you?” she tells me “yes” i then asked “how do you feel it?” she replied with “with everything you do”. That made me feel so wonderful inside to know that she feels my love. As to me it’s not really just saying the words ‘I love you’ that are important but having the person feel it in everything you do for them. As That was a big problem I had with Mohcine. He was always asking all kinds of questions on why I did this or that, why I said things a certain way (using a sultry voice). He was way to blind.

Thank you Lela for seeing everything I want you to see and feeling everything I want you to feel. I love you.

I haven’t been blogging because Lela has been down here with me. Right now she is sleeping as she isn’t feeling well. Ohh how I hope that when she wakes up she will be feeling better…..

Anyhow today’s picture was one I took of myself with my cell phone while I was thinking of her Saturday night and thought to send her a photo…