How soon is too soon to tell someone you love them?

When should you tell the other person those magic words? I think saying “I love you” is a very personal experience, and every person has their own different time frame for saying it. Some people say it right away with a new person, some prefer to wait a while to be certain that they truly love the person they are saying it to. And even some will make sure to hold off and wait for their other half to say it first. Or better yet, some say it to get what they want in life, such as sex or money.

Personally when if I feel it I’m going to tell them, If I don’t it eats me up inside. I’m the type of person that when I love someone I’m going to tell them. And I will make sure to always tell them. My thoughts are, you never know when will be the last time you see them. If something happens to the person I love I want to know that they knew that I loved them.

I bet you can all pretty much figure out where I’m going with this, Yes you are right. I’m in love with Lela, and I make sure I tell her everyday. While writing this post, I started thinking how important it is to me that she feels my love for her. So I went to her asked her “do you feel my love for you?” she tells me “yes” i then asked “how do you feel it?” she replied with “with everything you do”. That made me feel so wonderful inside to know that she feels my love. As to me it’s not really just saying the words ‘I love you’ that are important but having the person feel it in everything you do for them. As That was a big problem I had with Mohcine. He was always asking all kinds of questions on why I did this or that, why I said things a certain way (using a sultry voice). He was way to blind.

Thank you Lela for seeing everything I want you to see and feeling everything I want you to feel. I love you.