Love-Hate Relationships
Love-hate relationships to me are like an addiction to a drug. Your family and friends think your crazy for doing it. You want to quit because you know it’s bad for you (for what ever reason), but find your self coming back for more and more no matter what because you love the short term effects of it. Something about that person drives you wild and makes you coming back for more and that unfortunately lets you plummet further down, letting yourself be more vulnerable to heartache and pain.
As described by wikipedia.org:
A love-hate relationship is a personal relationship between humans or organizations, or figuratively between a human and an inanimate object, like a computer, a field of study, a body of ideas, or a profession, involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and enmity. Sometimes the person may love the other person/object, but hate oneself for it. This relationship can, but does not have to be of a romantic nature.
Here are other’s ideas of love-hate relationships from friends and associates of mine
Jon describes it as: Being trapped between two diametrically opposite feelings…I love playing my guitar. I love playing music with all my heart and yet when I play and practice, I hate the fact that I ever got into it because after 20 years I feel like I still suck and I hate that I am moved to keep trying.
Robin describes it as: A love/hate relationship is equally liking and disliking parts of their personalities to the point where you are left in limbo.
Jamaica described it as: Its everything and nothing at the same time for the briefest moments.
Marlene says: With such passion I detest you; and yet the same passion draws me near
I found the following today and just wanted to add it in, to close off today’s post….
“When you’ve been around the block a few times, you tend to be a bit cynical about affairs of the heart. But sometimes, in spite of your best intentions, love sneaks up and whacks you upside the head. And there you are: wandering around in a blissful haze, totally besotted.”
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Are we experiencing a crisis of conflicting feelings?
Somewhat yes….not sure if i would want to go as far as calling it a crisis though
Is this all about my blog?
LOL @ Robin, this has nothing to do with your blog goofy
Oh ok
I’ve been there with the love/hate relationship. I dated a guy for a summer and while I really hated him sometimes I was always so drawn to him. I think I was more infatuated than anything. He caused me SO much pain but I just couldn’t let him go.
There is just something about certain people
like one of Janet Jackson’s songs says…
Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
Sometimes the combination of two people is just dangerous.
if the topics is more about love, then maybe you can join me in discussions with other folks or share your love stories and problems in my blog at reallovedoc.blogspot.com.
but if we are talking about hate, then leave me out of there as hate is a negative feeling. Who likes to have negative feelings?
i still believe firmly in my life principle that there is nobody for somebody unless that somebody transforms him/herself to worthy someone. How? you can see the real love doc for that? but i guess in the way you write I know you already knew some of it. hihihihi
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