My Little Fairy Tale Ends
Well My little fairy tale has ended with my husband. We have been seperated for the past week and will be getting a divorce. Brandon and I will be finding a new place to move to and Mohcine will be moving back to Morocco. It’s not that Mohcine is cheating on me or that I’m cheating on him. It’s not that we don’t love each other. Cause I love him so very much and he says he loves me too. He just isn’t handeling the drastic change in our life with Brandon being back with me and misses his family terrible. His mom is always sick and he wants to help take care of her. I tried to convince him to work it out and to just go and take care of her for a little while and then go back to visit every summer. But he just won’t budge. He is a man who is so set in his ways that you can’t do or say anything to change them. Thankfully today has been the most peaceful day since this has all started. Maybe it’s because he has finally told me what he wants to do instaed of telling me that he doesn’t know.. So now I can close this chapter and start to open a new one with a new year. I know it’s nothing that I did or didn’t do. I know that he isn’t cheating on me. That it’s all him.
I am staying strong for the sake of my boy. I do expect to still have breakdowns but I just take them into my room or the bathroom where I can wash my tears away. I am also very thankful for having my family and my close friends.
Angela and Jeni I love you two so very much! Thanks for being such great supportive friends. Of course thanks to my family as well and I love you too…And yes thanks to all my other friends both online and in person.
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This was such a shock to me, I’m so sorry to hear it Heather. From everything I know you have gone through with and to be with this man, you must feel so betrayed.
It just sucks, and makes me so angry how so many people undervalue commitment. Obviously you and your son are a package deal, it shouldn’t be any other way. Ugh…
I’ll stop, I truly feel for you, anything I can do you just say.
—Indie
awww sweetie I am so sorry. What a terrible loss. HUGS and I hope you get through this ok. Good Luck house hunting.
Oh Heather - I am so sorry to hear this. BIG HUGS!!!! You take care of yourself.
This was incredibly unexpected but I suppose we all have parts of our lives we just don’t share. You seem to be handling it well so far, let me know if you ever need to talk.
Heather, this was just such a shock. I truly didn’t think Mohcine was like this ! I feel for you in inexpressible ways, and am glad you are surrounded by friends who love you !
All my love,
Jeni
Heather, I am so sorry you are having to go through this. Although very different from your situation, I have recently experienced a difficult divorce. I know that your emotions can be on a roller coaster. Your boy will help you stay grounded.
Good luck on this new chapter of your life. You will come through this stronger woman.
Thanks everyone…this was a shocker to me as well. I had my week of crying, yelling and bitching at Mohcine. The past 2 days have been incredible nice. I called up Mohcine today to see how he was doing, and told him that even though we are seperated there is no reason why we can’t still talk on the phone to see how the other is doing.
I’m closing this chapter in my life and opening a new one.
OMG, I wish I was out there with you right now. I would take you out drinking and dancing. We would have such a “Girl Power” fest. I hope you know that I love and will be here for you, even if I can’t be with you in San Diego.
I just thought of you and your first “serious” boyfriend. You have not have had the best of breaks in love. But for a good laugh right now, think of the time that you, your boyfriend, and I, were standing outside the Hard Rock Cafe in La Jolla. Remember that car that pulled up? They asked us if we knew where the Hard Rock Cafe was? We were standing right under the neon sign for it. All three of us looked at them, turned our heads together to look at the sign, and then turned our heads back to them, and pointed, again in unison, and pointed at the sign? I think that is one of the funniest moments of my life. BTW, I have a Hard Rock Cafe hurricane glass from La Jolla sitting right next to me this very second. Ironic, isn’t it?
Marlene, you know I think of that everytime I drive by there or even think of Hard Rock… such a classic moment
Yes that is hard… I remember back in 2003 when I served my hubby with papers for divorce we have always kind of been like I love you I cannot stand you type thing…but we always manage to try to work it all out. I can kind of understand where you are coming form. My husband is from Peru and he tries to maintain everything for his family, and he seems to loose grasp that he now has a family which he needs to care for. We but head on this quite often. I can go on and on about it but it is not worth it. Anyhow getting out of a long term relationship and beginning from scratch is really hard, I cannot imagine having to actually do it. You are strong to keep your head up and keep pushing through. If I ever go through that I hope that I will be as strong as you have been.
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